Added the with_retry decorator in db_models.py to add a retry mechanism
for database operations. Applied the retry mechanism to the lock and
unlock methods of the PostgresDatabaseLock and MysqlDatabaseLock classes
to enhance the reliability of lock operations.

### What problem does this PR solve?
resolve failed to acquire lock exception with retry mechanism

### Type of change

- [x] Bug Fix (non-breaking change which fixes an issue)

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Co-authored-by: wenju.li <wenju.li@deepctr.cn>